Ex-Husbands: They Can Ruin Your Life

My wife's ex-husband is the worst.  He's trying everything in his power to turn my two step-daughters and my wife against me.  He succeeded with my youngest step-daughter.  But the oldest defends me to no end, she said she's done tolerating his crap.

For the first year and a half he kept trying to tell everyone I had been in prison.  Now he's trying to get them to say I'm touching them inappropriately.  Plus he told my wife that if she took her daughter's phone away from her, he wold show up on our doorstep and she would pay and make me wish I was back in Iraq.
He's always threatening her, he tried to have my youngest step-daughter to take pictures of the inside of our house.  She found pictures of the outside of our house on his phone.  He's constantly threatening her and interrogating his kids about everything we do or say.  He won't even pay child support like he's suppose to, and she's afraid to tell anyone.  Personally, I'm tired of it.

How To Leave A Life Behind

I've come to terms with the violence in my past.  I was violent when I was a child, and I don't mean teen angst like vandalism or schoolyard fights.  I'm talking about serious violence when I was about six or seven when I almost beat a little girl to death because she made me angry.  That's when I learned that I wasn't normal.  I realized by watching martial arts movies, I could automatically memorize all their moves and my body would conform to the moves.

So, I started studying martial arts when I was eighteen, and I was good at it.  But what it taught me the most was how to keep my hate, rage, and anger in control.  Now I'm happily married with two step-daughters.  But my wife's ex-husband is a big douchebag.  He's starting to get violent tendencies with my wife and trying to turn my two step-daughters against me, ehich he succeeded doing with the youngest.

Now I'm losing my control and composure which is beginning to make things very ugly for him.  He's trying to spy on us, do background checks on me, checking her facebook, and trying to get her two older children taken from her.  Since he's checking the headlines on her facebook for the articles I've written, I'm writing these articles, even though they're true, to tick him off enough to come and try to walk though my door while I'm there so I can finish this little problem once and for all.

Let me know what y'all think about the situation.

The Darkness Within

I'm just a simple man.  However, when I was but a mere small child, I was different.  There was something inside me, yet something missing at the same time.  I was a violent child, I could not control my temper or rage.  My mom told me that when I was six years old, a little girl made me mad, so I got her down on the ground and started choking her, while puching her in the face.  My mom said I would've killed her if someone hadn't pulled me off of her (I don't remember who).

Another example is when I was sixteen, some guys at my school was beating on one of my female friends.  When I tried to stop them, they beat me down then told me to meet them at Spooky Hollow, across the street from the school, and we would finish it.  Luckily, if you want to call it luck, my dad let me drive to school that day.  So I met them after school at Spooky Hollow.  When we faced off, that's when it became a blur.  All I remember is, I broke one kid's leg, shattered his kneecap.  Then punctured another ones lung when I punched him once in the ribs.  But the third guy, the one actually beating her, I broke his tight arm in three place, broke his nose, split his head open, and when he was on his knees, held my hand in a knife hand position ready to crush his throat.  That's when I came to my senses and stopped in time to spare his life, instead I told him if he ever went near her again I'd kill him.  The next day, all three of them were yanked out of school, I never saw them again.

I've always been a quiet child and alone, but always tried to be nice and show respect to everyone.  It usually never worked, people just didn't like me for some reason.  I don't know why, but that's life.

Along with darkness, there is always some amount of light, but if you flip the switch, then your shrouded in darkness, and sometimes darkness is extremely dangerous.  Monsters do live in darkness, so you better be real certain you want to flip that switch.

Why Do People Act The Way They Do?

Why do people act the way they  do, that's the million dollar question isn't it?  Some, like myself, might say that God's design is flawed.  Right, I mean free will is one bug mistake wouldn't you say?  Instead of making us capable of building a Utopia, He gave us free will and screwed everything up.  Violence and crime is the problem he created.

Take myself for example, I use my free will in what I believe is the right way, not saying that I use to.  I use to have a violent temper, which I learned to control, but now I use it to help people instead of hurting them.

My wife's ex-husband and his family a good examples of the wrong way.  He's been threatening her, trying to turn her two oldest kids against me, which he succeeded in doing with the youngest.  When they were married, he had her pinned against the fridge choking her, almost killing her, but she was able to fight her way out.  He kidnapped their kids for three weeks and no one, not even the cops, would help her.  When she went to get them back personally, his mom hit her in the back of the head with something, causing a concussion and a knot on the back of her head, forcing her to have to go to the hospital.  Not to mention when she was drunk and asleep, his brother tried to do things to her, but she was able to fight him off.  And her ex-husband defended him, he was more ticked at her and not at his brother.

He's been spying on our house, took pictures of the outside of our house.  On top of that, he told the youngest that if she didn't take pictures of the inside of our house on our wedding day, he would whip her or beat her.  She was afraid to tell us, but she told my wife's sister who in turn told use so we could deal with the problem.  When she wants to keep the kids on one day of his weekend, like going to mine or her family reunion, he throws a hissie fit and won't let her have them.  Plus when they have projects to do, for school, 4H, girlscouts, that's when he makes plans with them and their mom is left doing it for them.

He's also constantly telling them not to listen to us in our own house and tries to tell my wife what she can and can't do in her house.  So it all comes back to God's mistake.
So let me know what y'all think.